Definition of untogether:
(adj) :
(informal) Of a person or their behaviour: not composed; disorganized, sloppy.
(adj) :
(informal) Of a situation: not under control; chaotic, disorganized.
(adj) :
Not cohesive or united; disunited, disparate, separated; also, not coordinated; uncoordinated.
(adj) :
Not together.
(adv) :
In a disorderly manner; apart.
(n) :
That which is not together.